Blackmail. The words in this picture probably make you chuckle but for some people, primarily men but also women the thought of getting a note like that turns them on. In this episode of In Bed I’m going to be talking about BLACKMAIL. What exactly is it when it pertains to fetish and sex? What type of mind would get in to something that could possibly ruin their lives?
But what about the ladies and gentlemen behind the threat? Besides the obvious monetary gain what does the Blackmailer get out of this? Do the Dommes/Doms who participate in this have some sort of responsibility or ethical guidelines?
So many questions on a subject that can sometimes enrage the folks debating it and that’s just what I’ve brought to you; a debate between two very popular Dommes on the subject of Blackmail.
It was an awesome debate and I KNOW all you guys will love not only hearing about the psychology behind blackmail but also what these gorgeous ladies think of the subject. (SPOILER ALERT: There were no women scratched or harmed during this debate)
Domina Kiara will be on the PRO Blackmail side of our debate and will tell you exactly why she enjoys blackmail and why she doesn’t think it’s that big of a deal provided it’s consensual.
DOMINA KIARA’S WEBSITE
DOMINA KIARA ON TWITTER
Domme Kyaa will be on the CON Blackmail side of our debate and will argue with Domina Kiara just why Dommes/Doms who participate in this off-shoot of Financial Domination are morons for putting themselves and their clients at risk.
DOMME KYAA’S WEBSITE
DOMME KYAA ON TWITTER
Episode related links:
Girls and Corpses Magazine
Pandemoney-um 2014
Cleis Press
Goddess BellaDonna – The Traveling Domme
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Entire episode 59:44
Episode download size 54 MB
Shout Out’s – 00:35
Debate – 18:47
The Erotica Report – 47:38
goodboy4Kyaa
i voted sexy as hell and turns me on simply because it fits better than the other choice of, stupid and shouldn’t be done.That being said i am scared to death of roller-coasters.i cannot get near them, i wanted to lift the bar and jump out the 1-2 times i ever was on one. It’s not that i am basically agreeing with Domme Kyaa because i am Her slave, but i always thought it to be dangerous, like who would want that. Like You said to preface this debate, it only takes one wrong Domme or one wrong sub, and it isn’t fun anymore. It truly would be scary. Lawyers, court, time, and the money to fight the case.
On the pro-side from Domina Kiara and the other choice of “stupid and shouldn’t be done” again i agree with what You said.If the Domme really knows the sub and the sub really knows the Domme and there is a high level of trust, well ok…i guess. It would still scare me, i am scared to death of roller-coasters. Maybe an analogy would be divorce. It’s all fine and dandy until….
On somewhat of a personal note, which i think goes along with this debate in a way.When i first crawled to Domme Kyaa i knew absolutely nothing about this kinky fetish Domme world. Once again it was more like You said, i just fell into it.i loved serving Her and obeying all of Her humiliation, pain , suffering etc., just the way Her mind worked in general. At the time i did not know Her position on blackmail. i just knew to tell Her the truth on any question She asked.And i did, so in my little mind my thought was i didn’t have to worry about blackmail.At the time i did not know blackmail was a very scary and kinky “game”.i thought it was real. lol
my point is that today, Domme Kyaa and i could play blackmail, but there is no need to because She let me permanently lock Her collar around my neck forever three years ago. Everyone i know, knows everything. There is nothing left to hide.#blush It would be boring blackmail.
Thank You, this was very enjoyable!
GoddessKyaa
Doing this debate with Kiara, and you as the moderator, was quite fun! I’d be up to discuss or debate more kinky subjects like this in the future. Whichever side of the debate subs are on, just listening to us talk about their kinks will educate them and help them become better slaves.
As long as women are in charge, I’m generally happy! Female supremacy for the win.
Cindy Jones
Just happened upon you on twitter n not very good with computers, but I hope to find You again, as well as how dies one listen in. Curious, as might be interesting. Being on fetlife, as well as in google plus. Thank you for both taking the time to share a part of you, as well as being you in heart, mind, body n soul
The Doc
You can listen in as soon as the show is posted right here! This show will be posted March 25th!