BBC
with guest
THE BBC DEALER – NAIMA
It’s BLACK HISTORY MONTH so when Naima asked if I’d like to do a show on BBC I thought, what could be better?! So the lovely Naima will be joining me to discuss BBC or Big Black Cock. If you didn’t know, YES it’s a ‘kink’ within the fetish community and Naima is here to school us all.
We’ll be discussing:
- What is the ‘obsession’ with BBC?
- Why do white men find themselves drawn to it?
- Has the black man been reduced to his penis?
- The book “A Mind of It’s Own – A Cultural History of the Penis” by David M. Friedman
- Is BBC about misogyny?
- And MUCH MORE!
Along with reading A Mind of Its Own – A Cultural History of the Penis I’m going to suggest a couple of books those of you of the pale persuasion should read if you want to be more of an ally and less of a dick to anyone of color.
White Fragility – Why White People Find it so Hard to Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo
How to be Less Stupid About Race by Crystal Marie Fleming
TAKE THE THE BBC POLL
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Great podcast on a subject I have some personal experience with. So just wanted to add a few rambling thoughts & observations of my own:-
I used to laugh at the rumors of white guys becoming obsessed with Huge Black Dick after watching IR porn. No way those stories could be true, after all it was just a bit of harmless adult entertainment wasn’t it.
That was until I started watching it myself … Fast forward 7 years or so & I’m now very much one of those white guys I used to laugh at.
Like most white males starting their BBC journey, I kept my head buried in the sand for a long time, ignoring how far I was slipping down the rabbit hole until it was too late & I could no longer see any way out.
Of course, I still enjoy all the Blacked.com style hetro stuff I initially started out watching. However, once I was hooked, it wasn’t long before I began the almost inevitable treck down the well worn white guy path into cuckold & sissy hypno territory etc, eventually ending up like so many do, actively hunting down, buying & collecting clips of XXXL Hung Black Studs pile-driving the absolute guts out of beta white guys like me.
And, as the results of your poll on the subject indicate, I don’t think I’m alone in this.
I definitely watched a lot of run of the mill vanilla hetro porn before getting into IR & never really saw the dicks as anything other than props, often wishing the guys would get out of the damn way so I could see more of the hot women in the scenes.
However, it’s like a switch got flicked once I started downloading & watching BBC porn. I simply hadn’t seen Cocks anywhere near that size before & soon I was totally hooked. Looking back, I also think part of the reason I found BBC porn so addictive, was that once I realized I was vulnerable, I just couldn’t resist the temptation to keep returning back, again & again, to something that seemed so thrillingly dangerous, taboo & corrupting.
Obviously, this more submissive aspect of my character was always there, but buried so deep as to be of no real life consequence. However, it appears the Massive Dicks of the IR world were more than capable of dredging up & taking full advantage of this long buried submissive streak in me, that would have almost certainly remained dormant if I hadn’t started watching BBC porn & I think there’s a huge number of white guys who’ve either had or are going through a similar experience.
Not that you’d guess any of this from my day to day actions, where I appear to live the normal life of your average slightly dull straight white guy. Whilst, at night an internet full of Massive Black Cocks & smirking Snowbunnies exert their ever increasing hold over me.
Is there some kind an agenda at play here. I think so, but I also see it as part of a natural re-balancing process. It definitely hasn’t gone unnoticed that a LOT of white guys seem to be getting hooked on BBC porn (Thanks to the internet for that. Lol). And, it also hasn’t gone unnoticed that white guys don’t seem to have any answer or even any apparent intention to try & stem the inevitable consequences of the situation. Because, there’s no way on earth this weakness isn’t going to get exploited to the absolute max in the coming years.
All this, plus the fact Women are becoming far more independent & selective about who they date/marry/spend their time with etc. I seriously doubt there’s many young Women out there who haven’t already heard of & probably seen at least some of Blacked.com’s content. And, as one Snowbunny commented to me – If you need to get some plumbing work done, do you call the local ‘give it a go’ bumbling handyman, or get a professional in to do a proper job? And of course, once a Woman’s experienced a professional, why on earth would She ever want to return to anything that’s 2nd best ….
The funny thing is that it’s such an emotive topic, it rarely ever gets talked about. And, just like when I first got into it, most people simply shove their heads into the sand & hope it will all magically go away. I actually consider myself fairly lucky, I had a pretty good time in my teens & 20’s before BBC porn got a hold of me. However, the number of teenage males I see on various forums & places like reddit etc, who are already into & regularly watching hardcore sissy white boi ass smashing BBC porn is astonishing. Exposure to that kind of stuff totally turned my life upside down in my late 20s/early 30’s so god knows what it’s doing to these young guys in their formative years.
Also, something I often see, both in myself & in many other white guys who’ve followed a similar path, is a certain common self destructive trait. That seems to be triggered once you realize you’re the type of white guy Huge Black Cocks are able to exert a hold over. You start to see yourself as a loser & begin spinning round & round in some kind of self fore-filling loser death spiral. Watching more & more, harder & harder BBC porn despite knowing it’s going to totally fuck you up, because that’s what losers deserve, that’s what YOU deserve. And probably why virtually every white guy I know whose become obsessed by BBC ends up getting into heavy duty sissy white boi ass smashing porn.
I used to wonder where the hell they got the white guys from to do those kinds of videos. However, now I totally get it & know exactly why there’s a growing number of white guys ending up doing them.
Depending on your point of view of course. Lol … It really does feel like we’re heading into a golden age of BBC porn. With Huge Black Dicks beginning to show us what they’re truly capable of, in a changing world, where white guys self esteem is being increasingly eroded & their Manhood openly questioned & tested like never before. And, judging from the negative way society regards cuckolds, sissies, incels or any other signs of perceived sexual weakness, I don’t think there’s going to be much sympathy for white guys who can’t make the grade.
Even as someone who’s experienced first hand just how much of a corrupting influence Big Black Cocks are capable of exerting, I don’t feel much sympathy. I just see it as the hand of Mother Nature & evolutionary survival of the fittest in real life action. A sort of psycho-sexual gladiatorial contest. With white guys facing an onslaught of Big Black Cock porn. Where anyone who proves vulnerable, the ones like me who simply aren’t Man enough to resist, end up getting themselves absolutely mind fucked into oblivion.
And, I have to say, they’re doing a damn fine job so far … Because, there’s pretty much zero chance of my mom ever seeing grand kids from me any longer, as it’s now almost a sure fire bet her son will end up being used as a cum dumpster by Hung Black Guys at some point in the near future.
Now, it’s obviously a whole different scenario, but what I’m going through reminds me of an old friend who had a gambling addiction. I couldn’t understand it at the time, but the losing always seemed to give him more of a perverse kick than the actual winning. To the point he ended up losing all his savings, job & house.
This feels a bit like that. I now realize I’ve been gambling with my future & steadily losing it to Big Black Cock. However, the kick from knowing I’m being corrupted, that every extra downloaded BBC clip means I’m one step closer to permanently fucking my life up, is actually stronger & more addictively tempting than anything I’ve experienced before.
One of the the ironies of all this, is that whilst Huge Black Cocks were undoubtedly responsible for the initial mind fucking & pulling of the trigger, it’s actually white guys who are pushing the whole sissy white boi corruption agenda forward online & actively trying to encourage & promote & it. Creating demand for clips, establishing groups & trying to recruit others to get involved etc. And along the way ending up with the kind of toxic peer pressure driven environment this kind of scene inevitably generates. I haven’t been subjected to one of the pile-ons I’ve seen some newbie white guys on the scene go through yet. But, just hanging around certain spaces means I often receive seriously subversive messages, hardcore clips & dodgy links from other white guys who’d just love to be the one that tipped me over the edge and got me fucked, or indeed any other white guy they thought they could manipulate & exploit.
It’s all pretty messed up stuff. And, I have to say, the deeper I get into the scene, the more I believe white guys like me thoroughly deserve the totally fucked up future of blown out ruined assholes we appear to be constructing for ourselves.
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As a BBC Bull, I can say that Dr Sue puts on great shows with interesting themes, which is both insightful and entertaining. The whole BBC obsession is great in my opinion, long may it continue.
Thank you Baz!
Racist towards white men because it deems them “inferior” or towards black men because it fetishizes them? The great thing with BDSM is that it can turn every stereotype or anything bad into something pleasurable without meaning any offense.
Interesting poll results, will be tuning in